Langwilliams
Well-Known Member
- First Name
- Langley
- Joined
- Dec 31, 2019
- Threads
- 26
- Messages
- 3,204
- Reaction score
- 7,503
- Location
- Lorain, Ohio
- Vehicle(s)
- 2019 Ford Ranger XLT, 2014 Harley Street Glide
- Occupation
- Mail Carrier (retired) Navy Vet
It's never fun when your money is spent before you get it. I was very undisciplined until about 20 years ago. After a divorce an paying that off I didn't have much left so I bought a cheap condo an lived there dirt cheap for 17 years. I did buy a Harley but it was used an not much for an HD. My daughter's ex was a financial nightmare. They had 3 cars for 2 drivers, a toy hauler, several four wheelers, a razer side by side, nice house in the country. She just liked to shop an get a new car every 2 years. Every check was gone before it came. They got bailed out by the hot housing market. They sold the house with a few acres an big barn an had enough left over to sell off the toys at a loss with loans on them then start over fresh with a few bucks left. She learned from it, him I don't think so.I could not agree more. There are so many people in financial trouble.
My wife and I wised up @ 15 years ago. We had a boat, travel trailer, off-road toys, and she horses that we were boarding. We were living paycheck to paycheck and we realized this was not sustainable. We had way too much debt! One of our main goals was to put both kids through college. and we realized something had to change. So, around 15 years ago, we sold all the toys, and just about ended up giving the horses away. At least the boat, camper and off-road toys had resale value. So, we didn't do too bad on selling those, but we lost our shirts on the horses. It took a while to bail out of that debt, but once we got rid of the horse boarding bills and Arabian Horse show charges, we were able to regain financial control. At the time, I was not too happy about selling my toys. but looking back, that was the smartest financial decision we ever made. It is a huge relief when you get hit with a major bill, and the money to cover it is in the saving account.
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