25 years wasted.

[Wytchdctr]

Just watched a 25 year relationship go up in smoke with the other side not showing any outward signs of giving a crap. Weird an HR dude (even military) is a bit boring. :/ Not in a biker gang or have a criminal record.

Fun times.. really. At least I have a damn good attorney. She scares me a bit actually.

But at least I'll be keeping a tuned (this week per UPS) Ranger. Not gonna lose the shadow black beast in this... And I am getting the kids (more important)

Why post off topic here. Might be the whiskey talking. This phone needs something to block drunk posts....

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[Muddy Fenders]

Good luck to you. These kind of things never end well.
For a whiskey fueled post it was kind of lame, must have just started tipping them back.

 

[Chris M]

Broken marriages are never a good thing, and I'm sorry for your loss.
I know all too well the pain of this and hope you are able to find some peace for your soul and heart as you are forced to work through the process.
Hang tough as best you can.

 

[Azriq]

Sorry to hear that. Sucks for sure. I'm on the other side of the coin. Today is our 41st anniversary. Granted we've had our moments but all and all, lots of good times. My words of wisdom....pick your battles! That and his and hers bathrooms...lol

 

[Jbrubakerjr]

Sorry to hear it, Patrick! Prayers for you and your children.

 

[Trigganometry]

Just watched a 25 year relationship go up in smoke with the other side not showing any outward signs of giving a crap. Weird an HR dude (even military) is a bit boring. :/ Not in a biker gang or have a criminal record.

Fun times.. really. At least I have a damn good attorney. She scares me a bit actually.

But at least I'll be keeping a tuned (this week per UPS) Ranger. Not gonna lose the shadow black beast in this... And I am getting the kids (more important)

Why post off topic here. Might be the whiskey talking. This phone needs something to block drunk posts....

'I think what divorce does is, it takes away your identity,' 'It's like death.'

'Your identity is wrapped up in the relationship and if it's not going to be there...who are you?'

Then it dawns on you, Hatred eventually erodes the container its carried in.

When you finally learn a person’s behavior has more to do with their own internal struggle than it ever did with you... You learn Grace.

 

[Doc]

Yup, I’m 3 time loser …

 

[NotBudule]

:/ Not in a biker gang or have a criminal record

You can still fix this part though , never too late to start a bad habit...

 

[quangdog]

Sorry to hear that, man. I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible.

 

[RedlandRanger]

Then it dawns on you, Hatred eventually erodes the container its carried in.

When you finally learn a person’s behavior has more to do with their own internal struggle than it ever did with you... You learn Grace.

I had to quote this because it is one of the most insightful things I think I've ever seen on this forum.

Spot on on both statements.... It is sad that too many people either never understand this or understand it WAY too late in life.

 

[BS67]

Patrick, sorry to hear this. Prayers up for you and the kids.

 

[Rinn69]

Been there, done that....twice. Still chat/talk to my 2nd ex a couple times a year. Life does go on, it's tough for a while, but it does go on. It's been 9+ years since my divorce and still haven't dated anyone....just don't have the drive to do so. Being single has it's benefits and it's struggles.
You will get through this and be stronger for having been through it.

On a positive note, you won't have to ask anyone to buy new mods for your Ranger
Hang in there @Wytchdctr !!!

 

[Blmpkn]

Feel free to vent, brother.

Shit like this needs let out, not to be bottled up.

I'm sorry to hear about your troubles.

 

[Chris M]

Yup, I’m 3 time loser …

As am I.
But my current marriage will be 25 yrs strong in January. I learned much the hard way when I was younger.

 

[Doc]

My sister is getting divorced after 50 years of marriage.

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