AzScorpion
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That picture was 2019 BD....Before Damper. Now these days I'm just withering away to a frail old man and soon enough I won't even have the strength to typ anymoOh, I meant to add "unconscious mimicking." I think it's also called mirroring, so along with reasonable eye contact, also reflect what they're doing. So if they lean back, you do too, if they place a hand on the desk, do the same. BUT don't be a robot about it. Be natural and copy the gesture loosely. You don't want to be a literal mirror, just go with their flow gently (gee, that sounds a little too crunchy-granola, but you know what I mean-neuro-linguistic programming and all that baloney).
I'd say to not copy any arms crossed or to do that yourself, since that's a "blocking" thing.
And keep your shirt on!
And no, that's not me, even though many of you may think it is! (I think it may be Damper Dave) =p
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