I'm frustrated too because there was a new one which meets my specs at an out-of-state dealership for a few months with 3k below MSRP, but it was sold this week. If I were not waiting for my order, I would have bought that one.
Yes, they were able to find my order from their system after I provided my order number. But they are not able to provide any more information such when my order will be scheduled or VIN.
My dealer told me keep waiting, don't worry, there is another Lariat order (mine is also a Lariat) 1 week...