You likely just enjoy building rigs, more than having or driving them. Nothing wrong with that at all. That being said, I don't think anything you do to these drugs makes them really better off road and worse on road.
My Tremor is fantastic on road and off road it's limitations are clearance...
I love the Grabbers that came on my Tremor. I have been surprised at how well they handle rain, snow, highway and off roading. Haven't been in the mud with them, imagine they wouldn't be great there.
From the highway to Moab they have really performed well. I think they look pretty good also.